Having dreadlocks is not always all fun and games. While you
may receive plenty of positive compliments, there are many times when other
people’s opinions can slap you in the face with sheer negativity. This is due
to the fact that many people are uneducated when it comes to dreadlocks, and
usually stick to stereotypical characteristics while judging those with dreads.
Believing stereotypes is an easy thing to do when there are so many
misconceptions about certain topics. Have no fear, by reading my blog weekly, I
hope your dreadlock education widens and you are enlightened by new
information. My goal is to help you form a more open and accepting mind to
something you may view to be strange and unusual, while dumping dreadlock
stereotypes in the trash. If you are contemplating dreading your own hair, do
not hesitate to comment with questions or concerns that I may not address
throughout the course of my blog.
Typical dreadlock stereotypes:
1. If you have dreadlocks, you are definitely a hippie.
Although I can ramble for days on
why dreadlocks do not make a person a hippie, I will keep it short. The term
hippie is used to describe a specific subculture from the 60’s. To break this
down further, Webster’s dictionary defines a subculture as a social group that
exhibits characteristic patterns of behavior that sets them apart from others.
With that being established, hair does not
glue a person to any sort of specific characteristics/behavior. That’s almost
like saying that any girl with a high ponytail is or acts like a cheerleader….
Let’s face it, that’s ludicrous.
2. Ew, people with dreadlocks don’t wash their hair… they
smell really bad.
This is definitely not true. In
fact, dreadlocks actually dread faster the cleaner they are. Natural oils in
hair do not help dreads form, so those with dreads are often encouraged to wash
their hair as much as they can. It is true that a dread head cannot use
shampoo, or conditioner, and dread heads usually train their scalp to reduce
oil production. However, I am willing to bet that my hair is probably cleaner
than your average woman in her twenties.
3. If you have dreadlocks, you most likely are some sort of
musician.
This is a silly stereotype, and I
couldn’t tell you where it comes from, but I am asked about this very often.
Since I have dreadlocks people assume I am some sort of musical guru. Older
people often ask me if I am in a band, but I can assure you, there is no
musical power hidden in my matted hair follicles. I CAN play Twinkle Twinkle Little Star on the
piano, though.
4. Only Rastafarians have dreadlocks.
Although very many Rastafarians
dread their hair in a spiritual manner, the hairstyle is not reserved for the
Rasta, only. I do have a pretty obsessed connection with my hair… but I would not
refer to it as sacred… and I am not Rastafarian by any means.
5. If you want to get rid of your dreads, you have to shave
your head!
This is not always true! A huge
step to getting dreads is research, and I cannot stress it enough. If
you do your dreads the correct way, WITHOUT USING WAX (and I repeat, no wax)
you can get rid of dreads. Men typically shave their dreads because it is much
easier to cut the knots out then it is to begin the process of de-dreading.
De-dreading hair isn’t a 1-2-3 procedure but it can be done with plenty of
patience. I have personally witnessed many people, usually women, who have
de-dreaded their hair and after only a few weeks of deep conditioning, have the
beautiful hair that they started with.
6. If you have dreadlocks, you DEFINITELY smoke marijuana.
This is one of the more annoying
labels that come along with having dreadlocks. Many random people at parties,
or bars have approached me to answer the question “where’s the weed, man?” and
each time they are sorely disappointed and shocked when I reply that I have no
idea, because I don’t smoke. Please remember, having a specific hair do does
not make you a pothead.
7. Good luck getting a job with those dreadlocks! Nobody’s
going to take you seriously in the professional world…
First, I’d like to say that being
taken seriously in the professional world has a lot more to do with your
overall attitude than your hairstyle. If you’re a go-getter, you’ll be
recognized as one. With that being said, it is possible to style dreadlocks. If
a professional setting does not call for my dreads being down or I suspect I
may be judged before my personality can be met, I can easily fasten an up-do
capable of making me look just fine within minutes! The acceptance of
dreadlocks in the professional world all depends on the audience. Some
workplaces may view dreadlocks as a negative thing, while others view it as a
unique, individual characteristic. Those of you reading this may be shocked to
know that many professionals that I met through a recent internship with the
State Senator of our district complimented my hair on multiple occasions.
If you retain anything from my weekly blog posts, I hope
this one sticks out in your memory. Please try and remember that each of these
points are merely stereotypes and are no reason to jump to conclusions about
ANYONE due to their hairstyle. Come back next week for more dreadlock coverage!
Your comments about not being able to use shampoo and conditioner is completely untrue, what makes you think that? When you have locs your hair still needs to be clean and conditioned to make your hair strong and healthy
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